His Secret Obsession Review: Let’s Explore The Contents of the Program!

His Secret Obsession is the ultimate dating and relationship program for understanding how men think, act, and feel so that you can get any man you want excited for commitment, monogamy and relationships. Just reading those three words may cause some sweat pellets to slide down your forehead because we all know that men tend to fear them, and that’s basically the inspiration behind this program. Without a proper understanding of how the male psyche works, bringing up these topics with a man can send them into a spiral of panic. These three things can be scary for men. However, with the proper knowledge and techniques, you can actually get the man you want excited about commitment, monogamy and relationships and even cause them to seek those very things from you.

His Secret Obsession teaches you everything you need to know to understand and activate the triggers in a man that are going to give you the passionate, long-lasting, successful love you’re looking for. It’s a comprehensive program that can work on any man because it all comes down to a science.

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What is the Program About?

Dating and relationships take a lot of work, but the same can be said about your career, or raising children. There’s a common misconception that love will just find you but this isn’t the case. In fact, the chances of this happening, according to new studies, is only 0.18%. If you needed a job or wanted a promotion, would you leave it to chance? Probably not. You’d likely put in the work, and that’s precisely what this program helps you do for your future relationships.

His Secret Obsession is an online program designed to give women the knowledge, tools and techniques needed so they can conquer their relationships and love life, and get the guy they want pursuing them. It’s a comprehensive system that has been exclusively designed for women, and by a professional relationship coach and trained psychologist. It gives women the inside scoop on how men work and what triggers their desire, and how you can activate different triggers to get the response you want from any man you want.

And it all comes down to the hero instinct. Not sure what this means? Well, then you definitely need this program because it is the secret to getting the man and relationship you want. No worries, this relationship program teaches you all about this and also comes with a handful of effective techniques that can be used in different scenarios and situations. However, as a sneak peek, the program teaches women how to understand men and how to bridge the gap between a man’s desires and your desires. Understanding the hero instinct is about understanding the biggest problems men face when it comes to commitment, monogamy and relationships. This allows you to navigate around these topics properly so you can get exactly what you want, instead of coming in hot and sending him all of the signals and messages that basically trigger every man to flee in the opposite direction – according to the male psyche.

Now, the program is separated into two parts with a total of 17 different modules that are designed and categorized for easy reading and understanding. These are:

  • Part One: How the Hero Instinct Works
  • Part Two: How to Use the Signals

The best part is that the entire system is digital so you don’t have to worry about an awkward package arriving in the mail. Instead, you can access the program online as soon as you purchase. You can also download the guides as eBooks or audio files onto your smartphone, tablet or computer for private and convenient access on-the-go. The program also comes with a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee, so you can try the system out risk-free, which sure beats being ghosted or receiving no matches on your latest right swipes.

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The program’s Download Page (Preview)

Who is the Author of the Program?

The author of the program is trained psychologist and professional relationship coach, James Bauer. You may recognize his name, as he is a leading professional within the dating and relationship field, with over 12 years of experience working with thousands of men and women. His approach aims to help anyone and everyone find passionate, long-lasting love, whether they’re single, married, on the verge of a divorce, widowed, or in a long-term relationship.

What You’ll Learn in the Program

His Secret Obsession is a comprehensive program designed to help women gain the knowledge needed to thoroughly understand the male psyche and to bridge the gap that makes dating and relationships so complicated. It’s a two-part system that consists of:

  • Part One: How the Hero Instinct Works
  • Part Two: How to Use the Signals

Within these two parts, you receive 17 different modules that provide you with valuable information, understanding, knowledge, expert advice, perspective and techniques you can use to trigger a specific response from the man you want. Each module covers a different topic or technique, so you can gradually learn the process without feeling overwhelmed or stressed out. They also come with detailed instructions, guidance, advice, templates, examples, scenarios, scoring sheets, and much more. The modules also finish with a ‘Key Lessons’ section that recaps the entire module in a quick paragraph. 

To give you a better idea of what you can expect from each of these parts and from the modules provided, here is a more detailed look:

Part One: How the Hero Instinct Works

  • Module 1: The Secret Longing of Every Man
  • Module 2: The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
  • Module 3: Make Him See the Light
  • Module 4: The Fascination Trigger
  • Module 5: Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
  • Module 6: How your Desire Can Fascinate Him
  • Module 7: The Secret Current of Happy Relationships
  • Module 8: Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
  • Module 9: How to Become His Secret Obsession
  • Module 10: Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
  • Module 11: Three Things that Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)

All of the modules that fall within part 1 are designed to help you understand the approach, the hero instinct, and why the techniques provided work. As a brief intro, this section teaches you how the hero instinct work and how understanding it changes the game entirely, as it bridges the gap between his desires and your desires. It makes things possible, building up the intensity and chemistry in the relationship. But you have to really truly understand it in order for it to work, and that’s what part 1 is all about. You learn how to recognize hidden patterns, how men re-enact triggers while interacting with you, core ideas you’ll need for success, and so much more.

Part Two: How to Use the Signals

  • Module 12: The Private Island Signal
  • Module 13: The X-Ray Question
  • Module 14: The Glimpse Phrase
  • Module 15: The Secret Currency of Happy Relationships
  • Module 16: The I Owe You Signal
  • Module 17: The Damsel in Distress Signal

All of the modules that fall under part two are specific applications and examples you can implement to use all of the knowledge you learn in part one to your benefit. In other words, it’s where you find all of the powerful techniques, methods, templates, examples, and so much more. However, this section doesn’t just give you the techniques and send you on your way. Instead, it guides you towards implementing them in the most confident, knowledgeable way. The different techniques can also be used in different scenarios and situations, which you learn all about as well.

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The program’s main manual PDF – Table of Contents (Preview)

7 Day Workbook

This portion of the program is your quick reference to all the good stuff – the techniques. It gives you fast, easy, point-form tips and tricks that allow you to implement the things you’ve learned straight away. It’s also great for those last-minute moments when you need answers or techniques fast! It comes with a scoring system so you can see how well you’re doing, quick guidance for the different techniques provided, examples, and much more.

In addition to all of this, you also receive a variety of free bonuses with the program. These include:

  • Free Bonus #1: Why Men Shut Women Out
  • Free Bonus #2: The 3 A’s of Effortless Attraction
  • Free Bonus #3: Uncover His Deepest Desires with Easy “Relationship Detective” Methods
  • Free Bonus #4: Hero Instinct Case Study #1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 

The Verdict

Advantages of the Program

  • The program is incredibly comprehensive, covering a vast array of topics, potential situations, scenarios, examples, templates etc.
  • The approach aims to provide women with the inside scoop on how men operate, so they can understand the different things that trigger their desire
  • All of the techniques and methods are ethical – no head games or manipulative tactics are used
  • It can be used by any woman, regardless of whether you’re single, in a relationship, married, divorced, etc.
  • Designed to work on any man as it’s highly based on how the male psyche works
  • The digital version allows you to access the program in private, anytime and anywhere
  • It can download the guides as eBooks or audio files right onto your personal tech devices for use on-the-go
  • It comes with a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee, so you can try the entire program out risk-free

Disadvantages of the Program

This is a digital program. It comes with many benefits, such as easy and convenient use anytime you want, sans having to carry around 17 modules. However, it also means that a physical package doesn’t get shipped out to you. Instead, everything is accessed online or on your personal tech devices.


His Secret Obsession is the perfect program designed exclusively for women who are ready to up their dating and relationship game with expert techniques that trigger the response you want from the man you want. It’s a comprehensive program broken down into 17 modules that all cover a unique topic about creating desire and irresistibility.  It can be used by any woman, regardless of your current relationship status, as the techniques can spark that excitement in any man, even if you’ve been together for many years or he’s a complete stranger. You can even try it out risk-free for two months, as the program is backed by a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee.

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How many modules does the program come with?

In total, the relationship guide comes with 17 different modules. These are like mini eBooks that cover a specific topic/technique in detail, which makes it super easy to gradually work your way through the system without having to flip through a bunch of pages to find your spot or the technique you want to perfect.

These modules can be accessed online, and you can also download them onto your smartphone, tablet or computer. There’s an audiobook version as well, so you can listen and learn on the go.

Is there anyone I can contact if I have questions about the program’s contents or need more ideas?

Yes, the program has a couple of options for support. You can reach the author and his team by opening a customer service ticket where they offer 24/7 support or you can join the exclusive, online community and share or seek advice with fellow users.

Does the program come with any examples or templates that I use on my guy?

Of course! You’ll find examples, templates, and advice for potential scenarios well throughout the program. The 7 Day Workbook Quick Start guide also has all the examples listed, so you can quickly find and use the one you want.

Has the author created any other programs?

Yes. James Bauer, the creator of His Secret Obsession, is also the author of “What Men Secretly Want” and “Relationship Rewrite Method” programs.


4 thoughts on “His Secret Obsession Review: Let’s Explore The Contents of the Program!”

    • Hi,

      Yes, there are audiobooks (MP3s) for each modules. You can download them when you logged in to the program’s portal.

      Hope that helps.

  1. You have the choice to read the program online, listen to it in audio, or download the guides right onto your electronic devices.

    I don’t get it. So are the materials the same whether I read online through the website or the downloaded guides?

    • Hi, yes. They are the same exact materials.

      The only thing is you need internet connection to access their online site whenever you wish to read it.

      So I advise downloading the PDF ebook to your phone too, in case if you don’t have internet connection and wish to read it, you can read the downloaded one.

      Hope that helps!


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