His Secret Obsession Review

His Secret Obsession is every woman’s secret weapon for finding – and for keeping long-lasting love. There’s no denying that dating has always been tough, but with the major changes in technology, it’s become even harder. In fact, studies show that your chances of finding love if you leave it up to fate is 1 in 562. Needless to say ladies, it’s time to take action. It’s time to understand the inner workings of a man’s brain, so you can change your approach to dating. Throughout His Secret Obsession, you learn how to appeal to a man’s every sense, and unlike other programs, you do not have to change who you are, what you look like, what you want or what your standards are. You get to stay just as you are. You just need the secret tips that you learn in this program from a professional relationship coach to seal the deal once and for all.

His Secret Obsession Review

What is the His Secret Obsession Program About?

As the saying goes, “Men are from Mars and women are from Venus,” and there’s never been a truer statement. We are simply different creatures. We think, look, feel, act, dream, and date differently, and it can seem impossible to know what’s really going on in a guy’s brain. His Secret Obsession is here to help you.

This online program is designed exclusively for women who are ready to take control of their love life. It’s a course that teaches you how to completely transform your relationship, current, past or potential, by showing you how to remove the biggest problems that men have with commitment, monogamy and relationships. Then, it teaches you how to take what you’ve learned and turn it into your own superpower.

Spoiler alert: It’s all about channeling his existing drives so they can serve your relationship and desires, as well as his, of course.

I’ll dive into the details in just a moment but for starters, His Secret Obsession is broken down into a two-part series that teaches you about bridging the gap between men and women, and then, how to use it to land the relationship you want. Throughout these 2 phases, you’re taken through 17 modules that cover all different topics and techniques and there’s also a 7-day workbook you can download to jot down your progress. You also receive some Text Message Formulas, which covers how to communicate in this digital age where no one actually talks on the phone – and most importantly, how to create chemistry and desire through texting.

And if that wasn’t enough to get you started on your new path towards love, you also receive some bonuses for absolutely free, which include:

  • Bonus: Why Men Shut Women Out
  • Bonus: The 3 A’s of Effortless Attraction
  • Bonus: Uncover His Deepest Desires with Easy “Relationship Detective” Methods
  • Bonus: Hero Instinct Case Study #1, 2, 3, 4 and 5

The good news doesn’t end there. You receive immediate access to all of this as soon as you purchase. So, you don’t have to wait or pay for shipping, or to start taking control of your heart and happiness. You have the choice to read the program online, listen to it in audio, or download the guides right onto your electronic devices. To each their own, but there are many benefits to downloading the content, especially because you never know where you’re going to be when potential love comes walking through the door.

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His Secret Obsession – Download Page (Preview)

And if you’re like the majority of us women out there who have had really bad luck with love in the past, it’s totally normal to be hesitant. So, this program comes with a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee, so you can try it risk-free.

Who is the Author of His Secret Obsession?

Professional relationship coach, James Bauer, is the author of His Secret Obsession. He has dedicated his career to helping thousands of women find long-lasting love – the right way – by not making them change who they are or what they want but rather, by giving them the information that bridges the gap. He gives you an insider’s perspective along with professional advice, so you can land the relationship of your dreams.

What You’ll Learn in His Secret Obsession

His Secret Obsession is every woman’s secret weapon, especially in this world where men can swipe right for their next fling. It’s a comprehensive program that teaches you everything there is to know about men, how they think, what appeals to them, what they look for and how to use your newfound knowledge to get the guy and relationship you want. The program is broken down into a two-part series to ensure easy and enjoyable reading, and it comes with 17 different modules, all of which tackle a new set of questions, concerns, difficulties, topics – you name it. You also receive a 7-day workbook that helps you put your new love tactics into action… And for all those ladies who are ready to get started, each module is summed up under the “key lesson” section.

But don’t take my word for it! Here’s a look at some of the topics and techniques you learn throughout this program.

Part One: How the Hero Instinct Works

  1. The Secret Longing of Every Man
  2. The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
  3. Make Him See the Light
  4. The Fascination Trigger
  5. Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
  6. How your Desire Can Fascinate Him
  7. The Secret Current of Happy Relationships
  8. Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
  9. How to Become His Secret Obsession
  10. Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
  11. Three Things that Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)

Part Two: How to Use the Signals

  1. The Private Island Signal
  2. The X-Ray Question
  3. The Glimpse Phrase
  4. The Secret Currency of Happy Relationships
  5. The I Owe You Signal
  6. The Damsel in Distress Signal

Text Message Formulas

  1. Why Texting
  2. How Curiosity Phrases Can Keep Him Engaged
  3. How to Create Curiosity Triggers When You’re Apart
  4. Texting Your Life Story
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His Secret Obsession’s PDF – Table of Contents (Preview)

And you also get the following bonus programs for free:

  • Bonus: Why Men Shut Women Out
  • Bonus: The 3 A’s of Effortless Attraction
  • Bonus: Uncover His Deepest Desires with Easy “Relationship Detective” Methods
  • Bonus: Hero Instinct Case Study #1, 2, 3, 4 and 5

The Verdict

Advantages of the Program

The first advantage I want to mention is that this program gives you back your power and alleviates any anxiety or stress you get when a text message comes through. This is an amazing gift that you just can’t go wrong with. I also liked how strategic the methods are and how the program covers every possible scenario.

Disadvantages of the Program

The only disadvantage I can think of is if someone doesn’t like texting. Although, this is a disadvantage for dating because everyone texts now. So, you have to get used to it and this program teaches you how to do it right.  


His Secret Obsession is every woman’s guide to learning what men really want and how to appeal to that without changing who you are, what you look like or what you want. It’s a comprehensive program that covers every aspect of men and teaches you how to use their existing drives to create the relationship that best serves you as well. And it works on anyone and any relationship. So, whether you are already in a relationship or have no potential beau in sight, you can learn the secrets now and use them as needed in the future. And you even get two months to try it out with the 60 Day Money Back Guarantee, so you have nothing to lose. And let’s be honest ladies, do you really want to leave your love life up to chance?

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How many modules does the program come with?

The program has 17 modules all of which cover different topics, scenarios, techniques and circumstances for an organized and easy reading experience and personalized approach. The modules are in PDF form as well, so you can download them right onto your tech devices and access them on your smartphone, tablet, laptop or desktop computer. They’re also available to you in audio format.

Does the program come with ‘template messages’ or examples to use?

Yup! You’ll find all kinds of examples and samples to use, along with different options for unique situations and scenarios. The 7 Day Workbook Quick Start guide has all them listed page-by-page as well for quick access.

Are there any other programs James Bauer has created?

James has also created “What Men Secretly Want” and “Relationship Rewrite Method”. Currently, His Secret Obsession is the most popular.

Who do I contact if I have questions about the program?

There are a variety of ways you can seek assistance when using His Secret Obsession. You can contact the author of the program on his website where they offer 24/7 support. All you have to do is open a customer service ticket. You can also join the online community where you can connect with other people using the program.


4 thoughts on “His Secret Obsession Review”

    • Hi,

      Yes, there are audiobooks (MP3s) for each modules. You can download them when you logged in to the program’s portal.

      Hope that helps.

  1. You have the choice to read the program online, listen to it in audio, or download the guides right onto your electronic devices.

    I don’t get it. So are the materials the same whether I read online through the website or the downloaded guides?

    • Hi, yes. They are the same exact materials.

      The only thing is you need internet connection to access their online site whenever you wish to read it.

      So I advise downloading the PDF ebook to your phone too, in case if you don’t have internet connection and wish to read it, you can read the downloaded one.

      Hope that helps!


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